Good Dads + Bad Dads = The Same

Of course women love the guys that doesn't run from the scene when things get heavy. But when you give the magic word "I'm pregnant!" then the tables turn. Even the good dads trip for a minute when you tell them your pregnant but later down the line they'll man up fast and handle his business. Then we have some that just disappear into then air like a ghost. Those are the bad ones. However, there two sides to this some people never think about and I'm not choosing who better or worst. It's just thing certain situations lead to great turn outs.

Take for instance, a kid that has a dad that's always there for them no matter what is great. The kid gets to see the true meaning of having a dad and becoming a dad some day. But there's other triggers to this too. It could turn out that the kid's dad was always there no matter what. Causing the kid to some day have kids and not be there for them because he doesn't know how it felt for someone not to be there for them. Then again it could cause him to be the best dad ever because daddy was such a great example.

Bad dads, the ones that knock up every girl they get and keep it moving. The ones where you try and get your child support from but never see it. The ones when you call and say your kid is sick and ask why you telling. This is the most hurtful stage a mother and child could go through. The dead beat type. But ladies keep in mind these are the guys you choose. But there is still a good turn out to this. Because the kid understands how it feels to not have someone there for them when they need it most, will possibly cause him to be great father. Because he know how it feel to not be there and wouldn't want his own to have that life. Then again it could cause him to be just like daddy and hit and run.

What makes this the same is that no matter what situation women go through do all that you can and your son or daughter will turn out so much better than the rest. But always keep in mind it's a two way street and just be dad's there or not. It could still turn out bad.